It is amazing how things can change around in such a short period of time. I went from wondering if I would ever see my W again, to crying in each others arms in ten days.
Yesterday was great. I went over to W's apartment, and we talked all night. We talked about so many things I cant list them all. But there were alot of "Im sorry's" and ILY's. We talked about us and our feelings. And our future. And the girls, and the new baby on the way. She asked me to move back in.
I thank the Lord every day that I took the advice of people here and did not file for D. I know there is a lot of work to do. And I dont think DBing stops just because things start to get better. I think it is somthing that can improve and enrich a M forever. Now is the time for proof. Proof that all the changes she is seeing in my are for real. I have been working out of town for three months, and I still have two weeks left. But as soon as I get done we are going to counseling together. I think communication is going to be very important.
Thank you to Michele. And all the wonderful, careing people here on this BB. I would not be where I am at now if it was not for you and your help. God bless everyone here.
Well, I'd say your question, "Am I ready for this place yet?" has been answered with a resounding, "YES!"
Things seem to be going very well for you and I agree that now is not the time to slack off....it's time to keep moving forward and showing W that changes are for good! So many of us take our marriages for granted, until it is too late! We here at bb know better now...so we're ahead of the game! Time to start showing your love and committment to marriage and family even more than you already have been! Go get 'em, Mike! And remember, taking care of yourself is a huge piece of this puzzle...so be good to yourself! You deserve it!
And remember, taking care of yourself is a huge piece of this puzzle...so be good to yourself! You deserve it! 