Went out to a local pick-up bar tonight. Primary reason is that one year ago, Mrs. T and I went there as a couple, and that is where (and when) she began to drop the bomb. I wanted to see if I could go there and remain detached. I walked in and ran into a guy friend of mine from the gym., It rapidly deteriorated into a night of drinking and talking about women (oh yeah, and Football on TV).
It was a great night. Haven't had one of those in a long time. (Now home alone, no harm done...)
Should be interesting to see what happens tomorrow. To have the night out, I left the boys with a babysitter - and left the sitter with instructions to call W and have the boys say goodnight. - So W knows I have been out, but has no idea where.
See you all tomorrow....
Last edited by Thinker; 11/20/0904:48 AM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.