I continue on trying to detach. Somedays i feel like Im making progress some days and others still wondering what has happened. I know that i CAN only work on myself but I do hope that she is going to counseling. I ran into a friend of hers that she has known since she was 12. She asked how things were going and then told me as long as shes known my w she's never been happy. It was intresting to her that from someone close to her?
Understand your concern, but, this is HER issue. It affects you, but she has to want to go to C.
Focus on yourself. What are you doing in that area?
How would you describe your W - happy or unhappy - before the bomb?
