Had my usual doctor appointment today (have been going weekly from jan-sep and now every 3 weeks) for my allergy injections. So I see my GP all the time. Well, today I finally caved and told him my troubles- same details as what I have written here ( it was a 50 min visit).
He figures H is depressed and that needs to be addressed first. We discussed H's family history (mental illness - mom, substance abuse -dad, depression - sis) and background, turning 40 in a couple of months and that H said he was depressed this summer. He is urging me to get H to see his own doctor about his depression. Basically he is saying that treating his depression, H will be more optimistic about MC and working on M?? (my doc is all for saving marriages if there is no abuse.) And said if he is depressed now, it will be nothing to what he will feel if we D.
So I am wondering how I should bring up the subject. Going to have to think about the best approach as I don't want to seem like I have been talking about him behind his back.
And I am still trying to determine how deeply he is involved with OW. I really don't know if I have enough forgiveness in my heart if its a PA. I guess I just have to wait and see... who knows how I feel when I get to that crossroad.
And I finally received DR and will be heading shortly to bed for a little reading.
