I've been avoiding talking to her because it's too hard for me right now. I'll probably keep it little-to-no-contact now, but I'm wondering when is a good time to start building up to more...
Maybe when "it's not too hard for (you)"
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac