I had a good talk with W tonight. She is not going to come, but she is going to make her awesome turkey that she makes every year and bring it over for me, my dad, and the girls. She and the girls are having lunch with her mom and stepdad for thanksgiving.
Startingover2, my W is never without friends of any type. She is the life of the party. A social butterfly. She will always have something to do with someone. It is hard to get her to breakaway for the kids.
She said that she may spend Christmas day with me and the girls. I won't have any family here and apparently her family seems to be leaving town for Christmas.
We worked out a new schedule for the girls and us. It seems fair to me.
She said that things seemed contentious lately and that she wasn't sure about being around me. I said I didn't realize things were contentious. I said I don't want that kind of relationship with you and I will work to not keep it that way. We just ended up having a good chat about things non relationship wise. It was the first time in a long time that there didn't seem to be any tension between us.
So I haven't quite decided yet whether or not I am going to take a date to the margarita ball. A friend of mine thinks I should and let my W see it. The date is 10 times hotter than my W. Not that my W isn't hot, she is. But this lady is even hotter. My friend seems to think it might put a bit of a jealous streak in my W if I do that. My friend says that if someone else finds value in me, my W might again to.
Who knows. It may be worth it just to see.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...