Thanks KarenMarie and Kimmie Lee for your encouragement!
Received the check from H today. Of course I analyzed everything about it.
First thing - he used my MAIDEN name on the envelope - nice touch H. Second he used a pen that was almost out of ink and I can barely read his signature.
Now get this - he used a Seabiscuit postage stamp. I loved that book and H knows it. He gave me the DVD for Xmas one year and he also gave me a riding hat and boots when I started lessons about 6 years ago. This stamp was not a coincidence.
He also made a Dec. - March notation at the bottom - implying as he said in his email that this would be my alimony through March. Alimony? We're not D yet dear H - it's your half of the mortgage and other joint bills.
My L is having a conference call with H's L tomorrow. We should then have more details about what's going on with this retirement fund funny business.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10