Wow, Dinner tonight was not pleasant as can be imagined. She pulled out the gatlin guns and went right after me about the tiniest stuff - going so far as to say maybe we shouldn't eat dinner together in the future. OK. That will be her choice.
Big mistake on your behalf my friend. One minute you say you are done... and then... dinner?
What the heck were you thinking! Oh, yeah, I forgot... you were hoping she would come running back. Uh-uh pal, it don't work like that.
So, you made the mistake on getting together for dinner. I wish you had told us about this... could have prepped you for it better. Here's how it should have gone down... The minute she started spewing you should have got up. Looked her in the eye and said calmly, "See? I knew this would happen. I must have been out of my mind to think that you could be an adult. Goodbye" ... and left. Oh, and if this happened in your house then you should have shown her to the door.
Your sitting there and listening was a waste of time and sent the message she could continue disrespecting you. And you sit there and LET her tell you maybe we shouldn't have dinner again... And then... you sit there and tell us... "OK, that's her choice"?
No way Jose. It don't work like that. Back to the dark room for you my friend. From now on you act like the MAN I know you are. You do NOT allow her to spew. You hang up. You treat this wench like a child. No more talk. She calls and IF you decide to answer you say, "Yeah?" If she has something to say about the kids you talk. The minute she starts spewing you tell her firmly, "Sorry, I'm not interested. Talk to my lawyer. Goodbye." and hang up.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
