Just got home from seeing the counselor at the church. She has been divorced before after 25 years of marriage and is re-married for 8 years now. Basically, she said that I am doing everything she would recommend. She is a follower of DR without ever reading the book! Her first husband came back to her twice. The first time he left again (affair) and the second time she left him because she couldn't let go of the hurt. Anyway, she said I am doing better than she was at this point. She said she cried for 7 months straight before she GAL and let him go.

It felt good to talk to 'one of you' in person.

Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month