Holidays are tough...especially those first ones. Who does what, who goes where? If she doesn't want to be there then just leave it. Don't bring it up anymore. You, your dad, and girls have a great day. Let her eat a Turkey TV dinner alone! It may give her a taste of what real divorced life is going to be like. She won't have her girls all the time. I for sure wouldn't cancel out my own dad. Its not like your W has been teetering on whether to stay M or not. Shes made up her mind.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!