So last night I asked her out, and she was open to it. She wants to take it slow and says she still does not know who she is. She still wants attention from other guys and is not in the mood for responsibilty....

So she wants a date... but not commitment. She called last night and just talked about how she is trying to find herself and why she has made the choices she has made. Very MLC sounding.

She is not commited to our marriage yet, but deep down she knows that it is a good thing. Just wants time to come to that decision on her own.

My plan for the current moment is to return nice gesture with nice gesture and see if we can get a game of love going. Not sure how long that will take but I will keep myself busy with life while she figures things out. I do feel like to some I may just be being used.

So I will probably work some tighter boundries into my life and not put up with the "using" that she is doing.

Thanks


Me 33
WOW 31
Married 12 years
4 YOD
1 YOD(adoption process)
Bomb & moved out 4/01/09
Divorced 12/17/09