It is funny I am completly the oppisite with everyone else. Most of my life I was this way with my wife. The last year it shifted and it turned out bad. I do feel co-dependent for my wife.
I have started to look at that recently and I am not sure why I would let her do this to me, I guess since she was such a great wife for so long I guess I needed to stand by her side as she goes through this MLC stuff.
I hate to see our family split up. I am strong, I am confident, I also like to get my way. So I am struggling with fighting for my marriage and letting her make the biggest mistake of my familys life.
Her loss I know. When she told me she was going to cheat on me I said "Well know we know that will never work." Then I grabbed my stuff and said "have a goodnight". Then I did not talk to her again until she started doing nice gestures.
I am a strong personality so letting her walk on me is a 180... not sure if it is a good one
Thanks.
Me 33 WOW 31 Married 12 years 4 YOD 1 YOD(adoption process) Bomb & moved out 4/01/09 Divorced 12/17/09
