The past 8 weeks have been wonderful. My son and I have had many memorable moments during that time. We went on our first spur of the moment road trip together. That will be a weekend I will never forget.
Concerning my son's mother, she sent me a text this afternoon asking if I would allow her to see our son on Thanksgiving. I did not reply since I was a bit shell shocked from receiving the text. I figured it would be best if I replied tomorrow.
We do have plans for the long Thanksgiving weekend. My family and I were planning on heading down south for a few days. So, the opportunity for her to see our son is limited. I was going to tell her that we would be back in town on Sunday so she could stop by then.
As for acting As if, I don't think that will be a problem. It comes naturally to me since I was younger. My father did a good job of making me mentally tough. Plus, I think its in our DNA. My father is the same way.
I don't plan on initiating any conversation with her. I really do not want to talk to her right now. I feel like any conversations should be initiated by her. That's my 180.
When we were together, I initiated most of our conversations. So, now I will just mind my own business. If she wants to talk, then I will speak to her like a friend. No R talks.
And Jack, there will be no Sheriff waiting to serve her. My intent is to let her be. I am not out to hurt her.I filed to protect myself and our son. When I filed, I didn't trust her. Actually, I still don't trust her now. I had to do what's best for my son.
