Maybe you've said before, but I don't recall- are you planning on offering for the kids to move with you once you're out. Though they may not want to leave their home, their home is with you.
BIM M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11
my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127
