Yeah, he is very bright, gifted actually. We had to have him tested in the 1st grade because of his behavior. They told us he also has "oppositional defiance disorder- ODD". Read up on that, not a pleasant combination. They say it is torture for him to sit for more than 15 minutes at a time. He is in 3rd grade and has been in a different school every year, trying to find one that is a good fit is hard. I thought I was going to have to quit working a couple of years ago and homeschool him.
He is just really up and down a lot lately, gets angry over the smallest things. I have a feeling he could be fearful of our M ending; he is very observant and has been exposed to H's thoughts unfairly on a few occasions.
No real interaction with H this week so far, except he told me he wants to go to CT (MIL lives there) for Thanksgiving weekend. Thing is, I was denied the day after Thanksgiving at work, so I can't go anywhere. I got no indication of whether or not he still wants to go and take the boys, can't imagine staying home on a holiday without them, but they DO want to see their cousins ( we have no family where we live). I'll have to think this through.
bim
BIM M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11
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