I guess what I mean about after August is this: is your husband open to R with you? WHere will he move to when his job is over?


I see your logic about the affair w/ coworker...but you may not be able to prove it. My WH was "just friends" with OW while having an EA. If I hadn't found proof of hotel on a credit card statement, I would have believed he "never touched her."

But if you can't find anything, then here are is an idea(I am brainstorming here)

Show him the definition of an EA and then compare his friendship with his coworker to it...if anything, it will show you were not crazy, but just saw too many similarities and had the right to be suspicious.

But know this: if our GUT tells us something is wrong, IT IS!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004