Thank you to everyone for your support and advice. My husband and I just had a disagreement on the phone. He was invited to a pharmacy rep dinner tonight but told me he wasn't going to go. At 400pm I get a text and he says he is going to the dinner and that the OW is going to be there also. I asked him to give me a call. He said he was definitly going and I asked him to drive to the dinner by himself. He told me the OW was going to ride with him and I told him I didn't feel comfortable with that even though they were "just friends". It is a 45 minute drive to the restaurant. He called me later and he told his "friend" what I said. He told me that will not bring us closer together and that I was controlling. I told him he was placing his "friends" feelings above his wife. He then told me he had to go.

He is making me feel bad for no reason. I would appreciate some advice.