Puppy, yes infidelity would make a difference. I had my suspicions about W, but nothing confirmed.
Just let what happens happen GF, and just my .02, but I'd read MWD's articles and advice above anyone on these forums. We're all just trying to put her relationship stuff into practice. I've never found anyone better.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK