There was never a no contact with a the drama with the suicide attempt. Now we still have the issue of getting the treadmill back.
I'm just taken back - he's been acting very jealous this week because I was traveling with two men. He was very attentitve and thoughtful when he picked me up. Then I see this today. He's always called and told me when she's contacted him. It was another 47 minute phone call on Monday and today is Thursday and I still haven't heard about it!
Just not sure how to handle this. We seemed to be making progress. I'm hoping he's going to tell me tonight. If not, I don't know if I want to get into the whole you're checking up on me again conversation. I do know that I want to set a boundary and get his agreement to that after we get the treadmill back there is NO more contact. It's just not going to work for me. If she calls him - I think he needs to not get caught in a 45 minute phone call and I'd like him to tell me right away. I don't want him to initiate any phone calls to her. I also think I'm going to ask to see the phone records from his business as proof that he's honoring the commitment (if I can get him to make it). If he refuses I'm going to tell him that my trust will not be able to be restored and our reconciliation will be stifled if not over.
