Thats true, I know it's not over until the papers are signed but it's really hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel.
The thing I don't get is that she still wants to pick the fittings for the house and she still wants to see it and how it is going. I don't know why? The only reason I can think of, is that wants to move into it later with her mum. It's a much bigger house than where they are now. If she plans on doing that, I'm not going to let her. The house was supposed to be our home, not for her and her mum. Maybe I'm being paranoid, I don't know. We havn't spoken about anything to do with settling on the house or visitation rights with our son.
She was supposed to pack the rest of my things last week, but hasn't yet (well, at least to the best of my knowledge). Maybe she'll do it this weekend considering I have my son on both Sat and Sun. They might be ready for me when I drop him off on Sunday. I hope not.
I know giving her space and detaching is what I should be doing, but I'm concerned that the longer it goes, the more she will believe she is happier without me.
I wish I knew where the spot in the middle was. Enough space for her to realise and not enough space for her to think she is happier. If that makes sense ? I also don't want her thinking she can't come back cause I have seemingly been happier as well.
