It's very simple; if she wants to talk about it, either go with the "we'll sit down with our lawyers to discuss it" or "I'll think about it and get back to you later" approaches.
If pressed, say "We have a lot to deal with right now in setting up the new house, and I want to give those issues the time and attention they deserve. So we'll talk about it later." And walk away.
This. ^
Yes I love it.
Also I don't get some of the language she uses.
She callS me controlling for not talking about what she wants to talk about.
Then she says "if I said I wanted to talk about our relationship you would"
I said yes if you want to talk about puttin our relationship back together I can make time for that as far as a divorce I will worry about that later.
The she says "SO NOW YOU WANT A DIVORCE"??
What are we getting then I ask. "A separation".
WTF man???? These mind games and s**t is just too much. All this was on the phone my response "GOTTA GO BYE"
