my W doesn't regret her affair

[BeingMe]

She still went to see OM. You have won very little if she is happy to have you as a friend, and OM as her lover. I can see that you had some baby steps, though. The time out is for you to get your thoughts together without her influencing you emotionally. She does that very well.

It feels like you are writing the letter and even contemplating next legal step out of frustration, not out of strength. Write the letter after you have come out of a 'no contact' period.

If she is a MC, then she knows how to play you. You may even think you have won some points, but ultimately, she still went to see OM, and even does not regret the A. I don't know how she can justify this when she is counselling married couples. Just doesn't make sense. It sounds like she is trying to justify the A. She could've easily found herself within the marriage, if she had tried hard enough.

Just giving you some food for thought.