Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Hey Drew.

That's a pretty tough question.

Her reappearing has more than likely thrown you for a loop, but what has changed?

Did she see your son? Did she call? Did she drop by? Did she offer up where she has been?

There is the standard reaction, "Where the hell have you been?"

And then there is the Act as if nothing happened reaction, and I only put that out there,...well for several reasons.

I think it might be in your best interest. She is likely expecting you to go apeshit on her. But what if you didn't? What if you 'showed' her that her actions had little affect on you?

I don't think many people here could do that, I'm not sure I could have done that...not at first, heck maybe not even later. That doesn't mean I don't think it worth trying however.

I think this would throw her for a loop, it would be unexpected.

Hey now that she is back is the Sherrif going to serve her the papers?