"H, I would appreciate it if you would load the dish washer on the nights you make dinner. Also, a couple of weeks ago we discussed getting the kids to bed earlier. It would help me out if you could call them to tell them good night earlier, say around 9:45 so we can stick to a schedule. Thank you.
PiGA"
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month