Advise needed....

My MLC'er has been "missing" for nearly 8 weeks. Well, today she decided to reappear.

The question I have is how do I respond now that she has come out of hiding?

From reading other threads, this dissapearing act seems to be very common. So, how do I approach this situation especially since she has not come by to visit our son during those 8 weeks?


Me- 31 yrs old

Her- 33 yrs old

S- 3 yrs old

Bomb- 4/ 09

Moved out- 6/ 09