For the first time in months... TEARS OF GRATEFULNESS!!
Wow, I did not expect the amazing feedback and encouragement from you wonderful people. I am feeling like I am doing well, but I truly did not expect that feedback!
That is soooo validating! Thank you, thank you, thank you.
I know I still have a long way to go. I know H is gonna keep trying to throw curveballs (thanks for that analogy Coach... LOVE IT! ) but I AM starting to anticipate the pitches and I AM able to hit them... most of the time. And, even when I miss, I just go back and try again.
I really do feel empowered. I am taking back control of my own life. It is still a daily battle, but I am doing it.
I am so incredibly grateful for this forum and all of you.
I'm just a newbie at this, but I can tell you the great reaction I get when he comes by and I am all decked out and in a rush. "Sorry, just have a minute I'm meeting people" He doesn't have to know it's just a good friend and I going to the high school gym for a variety show!
Rocked you need a golden globe for acting hun! you so deserve one, its so hard to stay calm and keep your goals in sight and not fall for the curveballs they throw at you. You are doing fabulous hun and you should be so very proud at how you are dealing with such a horrid situation.
Making YOU the important one and GAL is so key to how you feel, tonight I nearly skipped tap dancing cos I was tired, but no I told myself I needed the exercise and needed to be going out, well Im back and I feel fab, not only did it really come together tonight and I got a fab compliment from someone it refuelled my confidence and worth it tanks! Im so pleased I put me first, and cos of your inspiration I am going shoe shopping this weekend!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
RW has really developed as a hitter, she used to react to the pitches. Now she seems to really be seeing the ball, almost like she knows what the pitch is going to be.
Yeah, and don't she look HAWT in those tight baseball pants, and that cute little cap??
RW has really developed as a hitter, she used to react to the pitches. Now she seems to really be seeing the ball, almost like she knows what the pitch is going to be.
Yeah, and don't she look HAWT in those tight baseball pants, and that cute little cap??
And RDW. Thats what friends do. We validate, we listen, and we offer advice. But we do not force you to do it nor do we expect anything in return. Whats that called. Oh yea, unconditional love. P.S. we also joke around as well..... A married Irishman went into the confessional and said to his priest, 'I almost had an affair with another woman.' The priest said, 'What do you mean, almost?' The Irishman said, 'Well, we got undressed and rubbed together, but then I stopped.' The priest said, 'Rubbing together is the same as putting it in. You're not to see that woman again. For your penance, say five Hail Mary's and put €50 in the poor box ' The Irishman left the confessional, said his prayers, and then walked over to the poor box. He paused for a moment and then started to leave. The priest, who was watching, quickly ran over to him saying, 'I saw that.You didn't put any money in the poor box!' The Irishman replied, 'Yeah, but I rubbed the €50 on the box, and according to you, that's the same as putting it in!'
Keep working hard at being the best RDW there is.
Last edited by cutterbug; 11/19/0910:14 PM. Reason: added poor taste joke
) but I AM starting to anticipate the pitches and I AM able to hit them... most of the time. And, even when I miss, I just go back and try again.
