Allmost; Don't marry this fellow if you do you will be committing a fraud upon him and you. As time goes on you will regret your decission to marry and you will find it more difficult to keep up with his libido and will become resentfull. He will become very frustrated. Best to try and find someone to match your libido or work on increasing your desire until your confortable that it is close enough to his that you won't regret going forward. Been there done it, time does not cure this problem without WORK. Also if he is that controlling in the bedroom maybe he is in other aspects of life and could cause added conflict in other areas. Just a fools prespective