Thanks Coach! Much appreciated. Sometimes its nice to hear some of these things from a success story. It give me hope that there is a chance. I know there isn't one single thing you did, or one single day that did it, but I was just curious as to whether you knew of something that really stuck out in your mind. So thank you. Its nice to hear what you did when you were in my position and gives me some idea of what I should be doing. I read that link a while ago. It is very good. I'm going to print it out and put it in my self made book.

I too am in your situation of WAH scenario - age, kids leaving home, career goals, frustration, communication problems, his issues, my issues, stress, kids and routine. I am however grateful that there is no infidelity. Feels like one less hurdle to get over.

I like the last one. Never give up.


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14