The reason I sounded a bit harsh with her is that her post is not the most sensitive that I've ever read, ya know?! She speaks about her HD fiance as if there is something seriously wrong with him and....just her whole TONE was kindof defiant, so I responded in kind.
To you Almost Married, I am sorry if I came across as harsh. I was going for "blunt" and "stop yourself from making a huge mistake" so I hope it came out a little bit that way!
Seriously, AM, this is a big decision you have ahead of you and NOT one to take lightly. Sex can singlehandedly derail a marriage, no matter how much in love the two folks are who are entering into it.
Let me ask you this: What are you willing to do to make your sex life better, and come to some sort of resolution, before the Big Day? I personally like to read books and that has helped a lot. Also these bulletin boards are great for getting feedback and, above all, lots of talking with your partner. Get--and keep--everything out on the table.
