Any selfish move on my part to her is only going to keep her there.
The only boundaries I think should set up, was one how she can communicate to me.
The other being the money.
When it comes to the D part, I think she should have to do most of the work, you know provide all the doc's, assets, etc, with not much help from me.
Now on that I'm down the road thinking, but reading other posts Women very rarely change their mind so I need to step up for kids and I and hope she follows, also reading other threads the people that put up, just simple boundaries had a better success than those that didn't.
