'' I had an awakening this morning"

[givingitmyall]

I anticapate that she will let me sleep in our bedroom. Besides the other bedroom has a bigger closet.

Where are you going to CHOOSE to sleep. It is YOUR house and YOUR bed. If she needs space, let her leave.

You are happy to sleep with or without her.

DING, DING, DING! Winner, winner, chicken dinner!

acsnow, this is the thinking you have to change. I fell into the same trap.

Have you read "No More Mr. Nice Guy"? As a recovering "nice guy," I highly recommend it to you.