I am sure that your priest told you of other ways of receiving grace in the Catholic church including confession and spending time with the Eucharist(Jesus) at Eucharistic Adoration. Also daily Rosary and asking Mary to intercede on your behalf.
Kevin I have been following your thread along with several others as it is one of the highest viewed threads here. I pray that you know that waiting for Confirmation isn't going to be a cure all for your marriage and God will suddenly make things better. Your confirmation should be something between you and God and not a way to get your M back. You don't have to answer me on here I really don't care I just hope that you are doing it to become closer to God instead of getting your W back. And if she does come back all the better.
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33
