I don't prefer a "large cactus." The only time size has made any difference at all to me was once when the guy was so large that it was painful. Not interested in that! The aveage size of the male penis is 6 inches. Guess you could say I go for your average, everyday sort of fella. It's the talent driving the package that counts in my opinion but I do believe that my attitude plays a large role. If I've told myself that size matters then size is going to matter. That would be my attitude robbing me of pleasure and not the size of his penis. For me it's about who the cactus is attached to and how much feeling I have for the person. Cathy
