Magnificent

[mishka422]

That is why I helped to convince him the last time he was going to move back to CA. All it did was keep him miserable and our son sees that and doesn't want to spend a lot of time with him. Proximity is not fatherhood. He can be as much of a father to him on the other side of the country if it is going to get him motivated to improve his life.

He is depressed. He's a mess. He cried over lunch 3 times. This is a man who NEVER one time during our M cried except when our son was born. He talked to me a little about the situation he is in with the broom. Ummmm....all I can say is karma is a bitch and you reap what you sow. He kept saying that he would feel so guilty if he left Marc. Gee, you didn't think that when you left me! He left him too....in a whole lot of ways. He spends next to no time with him. If it takes 3000 miles for him to get back on his feet and get his life together so be it. In the long run that would be better for Marc. Seeing his dad like this is not doing him any good.

I offered him the ticket. He says that the broom is going to kick him out assuming they beak up. Maybe later today even. I don't know. I did have to break down and open a door (which nearly killed me to do but I couldn't live with myself if I didn't). I told him that if she kicks him out he can come back to the house until he gets the money together to move because I can't have Marc's dad living in his car. Go ahead....2x4 me, but I don't regret it. I have to live with myself and it's not in my nature to deny compassion to my child's father.

So.........we'll see what happens. I'll keep you posted!

BTW - My calves and hips are KILLING me! I've been Wii Fitting myself to death! That is a serious workout! I end up sweating, panting, but having an absolute blast doing it.