You can find your passion if you are sincerely looking for it. You certainly won’t stumble acrosss it if you’re running the other direction. Seek out your sexuality. Don’t try to just get by.
In my opinion, either you need to get closer to his level of lovin dosage or he needs to come down to yours (trust me, won’t happen for another 30 years) or you need to find a guy that doesn’t like sex much more than you do (tough to find a young healthy guy like that).
Cathy47 said it right. If you can be loving enough to give him a “snack” to tide him over til next time (don’t make him wait more than a week) he will be in much better spirits. If you really do love him then making some sacrifices will not take those feelings of love away but rather you will love him more from your acts of giving and you will have a man that will light up when he sees you. Have you read Sex Starved Marriage yet? If not then get it asap. Pay extra attention to the "just do it" principle.
Talk to the counselor privately about your penis size issues. Your the first woman I’ve ever heard of that actually came out and said that penis size matters. Usually women claim that technique and sensitivity, kindness, etc. are much more important. I’m curious to know if this is a myth and women really do prefer a large cactus on a dude. Come on ladies, tell us the truth.
Are there any real guys out there that have actually been about to increase their size by any of the many methods that are being proclaimed in every spam email?
4 days a week would be awesome. Some of us are only getting it 4 times a year or once in 4 years. It seems it’s about meeting the other person’s needs, not keeping up with the status quo. Still, I’d be dancing like a leprecaun on St. Paddy’s day with 4 times a week. Even twice a week would keep me smiling.