was expecting that advice, but didn't want to offer it.
And I didn't want to make that boundary to her until I was sure looking in the mirror that I had never verbally set a boundary with her.
I also let her set her boundary first.
Several Sundays ago, she said I could ask something, she would respond with y,n or nomfbus.
well I asked and she hasn't responded.
i read the lighthouse everyday, just want her to look into the light.
my hope with her going thru this is all the bad is lost forever and we're able to start a new open, honest, free to be individuals marriage.
and i have listened to her. found out when all this started she needed me to take kids more than all of us running together,she wanted to have a break from everyone after work every now and then, well she took care of the all of us running together part, but i definately have gotten more involved with the running the kids around.
i did offer to take D to doc and set appt this morning, that's what started the text from wife this morning in first place.
