The adventure chronicles

[Gnosis]

I haven't commented on your thread before, but I have been following along. She's testing you and you're holding out. Keep up the good work. You're doing a great job pointing out her own crap and aren't kowtowing to her anymore.

I don't particularly care if you don't like the visitation situation. It can be addressed in court if you so choose.

Call her on her bluff. If she continues rattling her saber, ignore it. Remember all the dirt you've got on her? Well, she hasn't forgotten either.

So, I hung up the phone, counted to 30 and called back.

Excellent! Believe me when I tell you that she respects this.

wife asks if I want to come in. I politely declined

Good move. See? You walked away and she started chasing you.

She said that she did and started to cry

Ahem... the armor has cracked.

I didn't see any mention of your FB friend. I assume that she has either dropped the subject or you didn't feel like rehashing. Remember she threatened that it was over if you didn't? Look where she is today...

asked why she couldn't come home. I told her that I thought that it was over

This is the only "error" I've seen you make. Next time use the words, "It's over. ILYBINILWY" It's time to use WAS-speak on her.

AFWAW you're in a fantastic position. Her fog has cleared slightly. You told her she needs to go to counseling. Let her start doing the work to woo you back. Anything less is a total bust.

All-in-all you did well.