Thanks, I'm still young, this is all new to me but I'm really, really eager to listen and learn because I do love this man and sex has never been a priority for me. I just happen to have a preference, but I'm willing to get or over that I just need advice. I'm not ready to put this man's penis size down in front of a counselor when I know he can't help it. This is better for me at this time in my life.