That was well said. You really brought some clarity as well as made a good point.... "You better make it worth his fidelity. You are the only one right now with the power to make his heart sing with joy or cry with anguish."
Can I ask you one other thing? If I'm not interested 4 days a week but he is, do I ignore my feelings or lack of interest and do it anyway? And if so, won't he notice that I'm not into it? I'm starting to understand why a lot of "GOOD WIVES" are "GOOD ACTORS".