Kevin, I don't get why you are even considering filing for a D, when you claimed you are standing for your M. If you are standing and believe in what you are fighting for why would you file? You claim you love W and girls then you have to stand. Not pursue, fight, or any of that with W but detach.
I can't seem to detach either, but you were the one that told me about rejoice ministries and now you are considering filing. If W wants D let her file. And still stand. There are so many people out there that get divorce and remarried or reconcile after years. Please help me understand what is making you change your mind.