We've been together 1 year and 10 months, moved in together after 4 months, engaged after 9 months, getting married in the Cayman Islands in November 2003 and in the process of building our first home together (completion date February 2004). What's the problem you ask? He puts sex on this pedestal and I don't get it! We're constantly arguing about sex, everything from how often we have it, how long the session is and how I respond or not to him. It's like he's the SEX-TWEEKER, there's always something wrong that needs fixing and it's always on my part. Don't get me wrong he claims I'm the best he's ever had and I think that's part of the problem-He cant get enough. If we had sex 2 days ago he says it's been forever since we've had it because I dont think he'd be happy until we have it everyday, 3 times a day. For me it is far from the best sex I've ever had and I could care less if we go 3 weeks without it, just as long as we have it a couple of times a month (just to get the edge/urge off). I know we could probably have sex more (currently once a week), but I'm not as enthusiastic as I would be if he was bigger and less critical. He's approximately 5.5"-6" long when erect and I prefer a lot larger and he spends the whole time concentrating on his performance and my expressions and reactions instead of just being himself and it shows tremedously!
I've accepted his smaller size and less athletic physique and am willing to take the plunge because he has more of a total package. My past sex partners were better-endowed and more physically fit but they were lacking so many other attributes. If he could just stop nagging me about sex issues, everything would be fine.
Is there anyway I'd desire him as much as he desired me at the size he is, even though I fantasize about an 8"! HELP IN A HURRAY, WE"RE GETTING MARRIED IN 5 weeks, hopefully!
