Guys I've never laid a boundary down with anyone before.

And that text to her was the first time since all of this I told her what I was and was not going to respond to.

In her mind she could've been seeing the old guy that was going to go along with the bs.

Just like she used to go along with the bs and had her melt down.

Wife and I never had clearly defined boundaries for eachother until this blow up, we were always trying to read eachothers minds.