What to do when H doesn't contact?

[jon2911]

GF,
Wow! This is progress. So, this happened while D13 was waiting in the car, may want to allow for more time next time

Does anyone know where that MWD article on separated sex is? I can't find it. In my opinion, the BEST thing she's ever written, and what won me over to this site.

Basically, she says that sex is an emotional connection, especially for the woman. She said sometimes, when nothing else works, that still works, and that's OK. I'd go so far as saying God made it that way.

GF, my C actually made a podcast about this, and distinguished between the betrayed spouse and the betrayer. If the betrayed spouse (you) is OK with it, go for it!

Here's what we're all trying to tell you here: stop questioning everything. It sounds like you had fun, so enjoy it! It's so easy to second-guess everything in your sitch. It's OK to feel good.

As for protection, I always leave that up to W. A year ago she asked me to take an STD test, with no explanation. It ticked me off, but I did and it came back negative. If you want peace of mind, maybe do that. Probably no need to make things more awkward. Just my .02

From NC to this is MAJOR turn, but as with everything else be prepared for pullback. He'll get scared and you might hear some "this doesn't change anything" talk. Just blow it off.

Are you going to send the kids card or give it to him in person? I would give him the birthday card from the kids, and be sure to wish him a happy birthday.