We are sleeping in the same bed because both of us are too stuborn to move. Also to minimize stress on our kids as we are moving.
I'd have a hard time sleeping in the same bed with someone who "hates" me, but that's just me.
Originally Posted By: gettinsomenads
I do have a DB coach 180's are to act as if I can take whatever she throws out, to act happy and playful.
180's aren't supposed to be about Acting As If; it's about making real changes for yourself. They're two different tools.
You can find all sorts of reasons to not GAL, but they won't help in the long run. Take the kids out for pizza once in a while. Schedule play dates with their friends and take them to the park. Have your wife watch them and go out by yourself.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
