My D11 constantly picks at D7 and I hate having to get onto D11 so much. But I have no choice because she just won't stop. Then of course the natural thoughts pop into my head that this wouldn't be AS difficult if me and W were not separated. I know there would still be issues. But being separated just makes it harder on them and on me. And from what I can tell on W to. I seem to get more phone calls from her griping about D11 than anything and wanting to make sure I am onboard with her about how to handle D11.

It angers me sometimes at W and I just want to blurt out and say, your problem, you created it, you wanted this, you deal with it. But I don't. I just get onboard with her as I have to do what is best to help D11 and D7 no matter how frusturated I am at W.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...