I may be next

[TrentC]

I guess what I am asking is if one person is going this way and one that is there any hope in the situation?

There is always hope.

I know I can't control her but it is very hard to detach when we sleep in the same bed, live in the same house etc etc.

All I see is the beutiful wife I love and want to be close too and all she see's is the person she hates.

Why are you sleeping in the same bed then? Maybe it's time she slept in the other room...

I can live with that and accept it but I feel like I'm beating my head against the wall trying to put it back together.

I'm not up on your situation. What have you been doing in the way of 180's or getting a life?

She can't begin to miss you unless you remove yourself from her life.