Here is the thing I realize last night that I am enjoying pushing her buttons. I have been walking around on eggshells for two years not saying anything and now I feel like what are you going to do leave me.
She was super pissed about the comment on the kids.
I now realize that CityGirl is right nothing positive will come out of button pushing and I have now decided to stop.
That is wise.
Originally Posted By: gettinsomenads
All she wants to talk about is money, custody arangements and all that stuff.
I have explained that I will sit down and discuss it after we move. She won't let up on it. There was another email this morning about it.
Ignore the emails. Let her phone calls go to voice mail. Contact her when you feel like discussing it.
Originally Posted By: gettinsomenads
I feel okay emotionally but she is beating me down to the point where I want to say F**K IT GO THEN HAVE A NICE LIFE.
This process is totally under your control.
If you want to call it quits, do so. If you want to get emotional and make this process harder, knock yourself out.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
