Sweetie, he is the father of your child. Of course you have to think about how Marc will be affected. And of course you want him to be there for Marc. That's totally natural.
Just be very careful to not go in fix it mode.
Once you start down that path, you tend to slide deeper. Keep a safe emotional distance. Bit your tongue (literally if you have to) but don't take the bait.
You can do it!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2