In shock...

[praying_in_GA]

Ok, I need to send H an e-mail or something. He stays here at the house when I work so he can watch the kids. I mentioned to him last week that he is feeding them nothing but fast food the nights I am at work. So, last night he came home and cooked them dinner. Well, he left all of the dishes from cooking and eating in the sink for me to take care of. This is so not going to work for me. I work 12 hours at night and come home to take care of two children until 1pm. Then I sleep for 2 hours and get up to take care of the kids until bed time.

It is time to set boundaries. I need to tell him to do the damn dishes when he makes a mess like this, I need him to call before a certain time at night to tell them good night, and I need him to put them to bed earlier. They were up until after 11pm last night.

I am tired and angry right now so I don't want to send it off yet because it will come across bitchy. I spent yesterday morning cleaning the house, dishes, clothes, vacuuming, counters, and table. Now there is crap everywhere and I am not happy!! He still pays the bills here that he paid when he lived here. Does that give him the right to leave the place a mess three nights a week?