Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

As for the meds I hope they help. I'm not sure what anxiety really is but would they help me with something like this?

Like I said; when I started to take my meds, I felt like the stressed-out portion of my mind took a break. I can't really describe what it was like before the meds, but I feel more emotionally stable.

He gave it to me. I said "Thanks!" He then said "wait, I'll give you his cell too", so he looked on his directory and couldn't find it. I said " No problem thanks again" He then goes "Soooooooooo....ya" It was awkward, and I really felt like he was trying to think of something to say but couldn't. Now normally this wouldn't mean anything, but to me right now it does.

What it means is, he's having trouble figuring out this new state of affairs. He wants to reach out to you but isn't sure how.

Just keep playing it cool. The idea is to push him towards pursing you, and it's hard to do if you don't play hard-to-get.

Is this anxiety? I didn't dwell on it ALL night, but I certainly thought about it a few times as a means of hope. Would you classify this as anxiety? Hung up on his every word?

Well, my hope is that the Xanax will cut down on the anxiety, which should help you detach.